Preparing for a Relationship- Lesson 2

Preparing for a Relationship Workshop:

Lesson 2-

1.     Remember the Law of Attraction!  Our thoughts manifest into our reality.  If we are sure we will find our perfect love then so it will be!  Keep your thoughts high and positive.  Do not let yourself get down or negative.  This changes the way the universe reads your desires.  If one is always saying, “There are no good women/men out there.”  Guess, what?  There won’t be.  You will find that you attract people of that nature and it will only strengthen your thoughts.  Change your thoughts around.  Only positive thoughts and high self-talk for you!  We are all deserving of love.  We are put on this planet to love.  To think that you are different and undeserving from the rest of the world is preposterous.

2.     Be aware of who the universe puts in front of you.  He/she may not be “the one” but it could be someone who leads you to “the one”.  Be open, kind and considerate to all who come into your path.  Be genuine.  We are all connected.  One new person of any age or gender may lead us to our beloved.  Be open to receive!

3.     Open up your world.  It’s not likely that we will find someone if we hole up at home every night.  Go for a coffee with a friend.  Take people up on offers of a night out even if it is something a bit outside your comfort zone. (This is not to say do things that are outside your values) Let me explain:  Oftentimes we say no to something because we just don’t want to get off the couch or we won’t know anyone at the gathering or it’s not something you have done before.  Be open!  You are changing and evolving all of the time, so are others.  One never knows where one might meet their love!

4.     Relax…  Don’t be afraid to be yourself.  After all, we want to attract someone who loves us completely for who we are.  If we play “pretend” that we are someone else, we are not being authentic and actually lying about who we are.  We may not even know we are doing it, but to say, “Oh, I love car racing!” when we actually despise it, is not being authentic and when one is not authentically who they are it is a recipe for resentment later on in the relationship.  This workshop is about showing up whole and complete so you may attract someone whole and complete!

I honor the seeker in you which brought you to this article.  You are light, you are love, and you are loved!

Namaste’

Preparing for a Relationship Workshop- Lesson 1

Preparing for a Relationship Workshop:

Lesson 1-

1.      Make a list of all the attributes you wish your mate to have.  Be specific and make the list as long as you like.  What would be absolutely ideal for you?  Make a conscious effort to stay away from material issues like what he/she should look like or how much money he/she should make.  Those items tend to fall into place when we match up correctly with someone of like mind, heart, soul and values.

2.     Now take a long look at your list.  This is the time for complete personal honesty.  As you are reading down your list, look at each item and compare that item to what you know to be true about yourself.  Do you have the same attribute(s) you are looking for in someone else?  We will attract people of like vibration.  For example:  I want someone who is very secure in his/her self.  Are you secure in yourself?  Are you absolutely sure you are secure in yourself?  If you are unsure, consult a good friend who loves you enough to be honest with you or a life coach.  Lasering in on who we are is key here.

3.     Work on the traits that you may be lacking in.  The higher our vibration, the higher vibrational people we will attract to us.  The first step in healing anything in ourselves is first recognizing it.  Bring it to the surface.  Acknowledge it is there. Accept yourself as human and do not let this new found information upset you.  Let it encourage you! You are on the path to healing and greatness and all seekers must first recognize who they are in order to transcend the behavior.  *According to what the behavior/trait is that you are working on, it may take days to months to come to a place of healing.  The good news is you are on your way!  And even if you haven’t overcome it completely that doesn’t mean that you are not ready for a relationship.  Oftentimes, we can only do so much work ourselves and then the rest of the growth comes while within a relationship.   But by being fully aware of yourself and being honest about your triggers or weak places, it not only makes you aware of this, but the other person as well.   How can we lose weight until we recognize that we are overweight?  It’s the same idea.

When you feel ready, move on to- 

 Preparing for a Relationship Workshop:   Lesson 2

Many blessings,  KB