Preparing for a Relationship- Lesson 2

Preparing for a Relationship Workshop:

Lesson 2-

1.     Remember the Law of Attraction!  Our thoughts manifest into our reality.  If we are sure we will find our perfect love then so it will be!  Keep your thoughts high and positive.  Do not let yourself get down or negative.  This changes the way the universe reads your desires.  If one is always saying, “There are no good women/men out there.”  Guess, what?  There won’t be.  You will find that you attract people of that nature and it will only strengthen your thoughts.  Change your thoughts around.  Only positive thoughts and high self-talk for you!  We are all deserving of love.  We are put on this planet to love.  To think that you are different and undeserving from the rest of the world is preposterous.

2.     Be aware of who the universe puts in front of you.  He/she may not be “the one” but it could be someone who leads you to “the one”.  Be open, kind and considerate to all who come into your path.  Be genuine.  We are all connected.  One new person of any age or gender may lead us to our beloved.  Be open to receive!

3.     Open up your world.  It’s not likely that we will find someone if we hole up at home every night.  Go for a coffee with a friend.  Take people up on offers of a night out even if it is something a bit outside your comfort zone. (This is not to say do things that are outside your values) Let me explain:  Oftentimes we say no to something because we just don’t want to get off the couch or we won’t know anyone at the gathering or it’s not something you have done before.  Be open!  You are changing and evolving all of the time, so are others.  One never knows where one might meet their love!

4.     Relax…  Don’t be afraid to be yourself.  After all, we want to attract someone who loves us completely for who we are.  If we play “pretend” that we are someone else, we are not being authentic and actually lying about who we are.  We may not even know we are doing it, but to say, “Oh, I love car racing!” when we actually despise it, is not being authentic and when one is not authentically who they are it is a recipe for resentment later on in the relationship.  This workshop is about showing up whole and complete so you may attract someone whole and complete!

I honor the seeker in you which brought you to this article.  You are light, you are love, and you are loved!

Namaste’