Preparing for a Relationship Workshop- Lesson 1

Preparing for a Relationship Workshop:

Lesson 1-

1.      Make a list of all the attributes you wish your mate to have.  Be specific and make the list as long as you like.  What would be absolutely ideal for you?  Make a conscious effort to stay away from material issues like what he/she should look like or how much money he/she should make.  Those items tend to fall into place when we match up correctly with someone of like mind, heart, soul and values.

2.     Now take a long look at your list.  This is the time for complete personal honesty.  As you are reading down your list, look at each item and compare that item to what you know to be true about yourself.  Do you have the same attribute(s) you are looking for in someone else?  We will attract people of like vibration.  For example:  I want someone who is very secure in his/her self.  Are you secure in yourself?  Are you absolutely sure you are secure in yourself?  If you are unsure, consult a good friend who loves you enough to be honest with you or a life coach.  Lasering in on who we are is key here.

3.     Work on the traits that you may be lacking in.  The higher our vibration, the higher vibrational people we will attract to us.  The first step in healing anything in ourselves is first recognizing it.  Bring it to the surface.  Acknowledge it is there. Accept yourself as human and do not let this new found information upset you.  Let it encourage you! You are on the path to healing and greatness and all seekers must first recognize who they are in order to transcend the behavior.  *According to what the behavior/trait is that you are working on, it may take days to months to come to a place of healing.  The good news is you are on your way!  And even if you haven’t overcome it completely that doesn’t mean that you are not ready for a relationship.  Oftentimes, we can only do so much work ourselves and then the rest of the growth comes while within a relationship.   But by being fully aware of yourself and being honest about your triggers or weak places, it not only makes you aware of this, but the other person as well.   How can we lose weight until we recognize that we are overweight?  It’s the same idea.

When you feel ready, move on to- 

 Preparing for a Relationship Workshop:   Lesson 2

Many blessings,  KB